How do I know what he wants from me?

sex is not an option when i meet men. men respect me on that level. its more about getting to know me and the things that i enjoy doing. men connect with me more on a emotional level. they admire me as a person while they glorify my beauty. my friends cuddle me but its nothing more than a warm embrace. in your case he sounds selfish and selfish men need to be by themselves.....