I'm not sure what to think?

Hi Misty Moon, well even though your great together, you go out together, you have sex and he is amazing. There is obviously some sort of situation whereby you don't get to meet his friends, and you don't hear from him for days. It's really no good having "no idea what to think" because that gets you absolutely nowhere. So your relationship although it seems very strong, also contains a secret. I don't know the guy, you do. But you don't want to ask him because you're afraid of rejection. Like I say I don't know the guy, but reading your question I get down to you haven't been introduced to his friends, which leads me to believe that whatever you and him have together, his friends know what really is happening. You see I focus on the fact you don't get introduced to his friends. I conclude that his friends know exactly why he doesn't introduce you to them. Look you have two issues here, the first one being his friends, and the second one the days he goes without contacting you. You don't want to ask him, personally I would like to know, for I feel if there wasn't much in this, then there would be no harm in asking him. So if you don't want to approach him, then you should get one of your friends, to ask one of his friends what is happening. This guy is in a very heavy relationship with you, and that sort of relationship needs total trust with one another. If you lose trust in him the relationship will never be the same. Take the scenario where he may have another girl around. His friends would probably know about this, they may not know about you, but he doesn't want you to meet them in case someone slips up and gives you the idea that he may have another girl. That is one scenario. The same thing applies when he doesn't contact you for days, maybe those days he's busy with this other girl. So this little scenario fits like a glove, I'm not saying it's true it's just the way he's acting you can see it could be true. Of course there may be other scenarios that fit his lapses with you, so if you want you can sit down and try to work out what other scenarios fit the bill. Really, you can't keep this relationship going, without knowing exactly what's happening. You don't want a girl suddenly appearing with this guy, so you need to find out for sure, for if it is true then he is seriously disrespecting you. Especially when you're both so close. Anyway whatever way you go about this you need to know even if it's just to satisfy your curiosity. The way you find out is of course up to you, but I don't really think you would feel rejected, if another girl popped up in the near future. For what does it matter if you feel rejected. For if he is doing that, what is there to feel rejected about. You'd be better off without him that's for sure. You say everyone is telling you to ask him, and their right. The problem is you don't want to ask him, so like I say your best bet is to get one of your friends the most trusted one, to ask one of his friends one or two pertinent questions. Then you may get to hear the truth. I wish you happiness.